maria diaz : I've always been a Tarzan dater.

September 27, 2009 3 notes

I’ve always been a Tarzan dater.

I am the same way now, too. And I used to be far more boy crazy, but now… I just kind of wait for dudes to come into my life, which inevitably, they do. I also have other things to think about. It only worries me because I know a lot of it is just trust issues. But, what are you gonna do, besides try to work through it?

jgh:

As soon as I’m done dating one guy, I immediately go to the next one. Healthy? No, not really. But that’s just how I was.

After my last relationship (which was fine - not dissing it), I just feel no interest. I feel that I could be happily single for the rest of my life, and date from time to time, but not really look for anything more.

I just don’t feel any interest or inclination. It’s like I’ve made a complete 180 from the man-dependent person I used to be.

But now, I’m worried that this isn’t healthy, either.

Is something wrong with me?

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emptythoughts answered: I used to be prone to do the same, but I also took a break and my therapist says thats healthy…so ugh…yeah
scarletemily answered: no because I have done the same thing. you’ll learn from it. men are exhausting anyway.
boutofcontext answered: Don’t sweat it.
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thedisgruntledgradstudent answered: No nothing it wrong with you. Malaise happens.
ashdinosaur answered: Ounds like a good thing to me. As long as you’re happy that seems a healthy way to be.
unicornery answered: I think it’s fine to go in cycles like that. People change what they want, it’s not a big deal. You’ll be fine =)
alaskamiller answered: no, it’s just like craving pizza for awhile then burgers for awhile. you have years and years to go about this.

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